When I see people complaining about how much they over extend themselves in their relationships and get nothing in return, I want to grab them by the shoulders and shake them vigorously.I want to tell them to stop immediately, to put a pause on that behaviour.I just don't get why one should view giving in that way, because it takes the joy out of the act.Instead of constantly giving to a point that it negatively affects you, why not just be generous when you can?I'm basically saying you should give less frequently, but more easily, because when you only do so when you genuinely can, you do so from a different place.

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