It's not easy to claim being an old woman. To start with, how can I be 75 when I feel about 40? And isn't it shameful to be old when youth is valued? People proudly parrot statements such as, 'I'm growing older but not getting old' (meaning, 'How terrible to be old!'). I even heard that line quoted approvingly by one of the middle-aged hosts of the recent Australia Day Award ceremony. Then there are shop assistants who serve an old person by asking, 'What can I do for you, young lady/man?' (that is, 'I see that you're old and will mock it by calling you young').

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